For the most part, we are the products of our choices.
There’s a lot more we have control over than we think. Even when we think we don’t, we can choose to take control over our responses to inevitable situations.
Shifting from a “I have to” to an “I choose” mindset can bring significant positive changes to various aspects of our lives, including work, parenting, and dealing with difficult situations.
In the realm of work, adopting an “I choose” mindset transforms the way we approach our professional responsibilities. Instead of feeling burdened by tasks, we recognize that we have actively chosen our career path. By acknowledging our choice, we can reframe challenges as opportunities for growth and development. For example, rather than dreading a demanding project, we can choose to view it as a chance to showcase our skills and make a meaningful impact. This mindset shift allows us to take ownership of our career choices and find greater satisfaction in our work.
When it comes to parenting, transitioning from “I have to” to “I choose” can enhance the relationship with our children. Instead of perceiving parenting duties as obligations, we see them as conscious choices we make to nurture and support our children. This shift enables us to approach parenting with a more positive and proactive mindset. For instance, instead of feeling overwhelmed by bedtime routines, we can choose to engage in quality bonding time with our children, making it an opportunity to create cherished memories. Embracing the “I choose” mindset empowers us to be more present and engaged parents.
In dealing with difficult situations, the “I choose” mindset offers resilience and adaptability. Rather than feeling victimized by circumstances, we acknowledge that we have the power to choose our response. For instance, if faced with a challenging setback at work, we can choose to view it as a learning experience, seeking alternative solutions and seizing opportunities for growth. By shifting our perspective from “I have to endure this” to “I choose how I navigate this,” we regain a sense of control and actively shape our outcomes.
No one promised life would be easy – in fact it’s traumatic from the moment we are born. We are constantly exposed to things we’re not ready for…
And paradoxically that’s where the most potential for growth comes!
This is not meant to condone injustice and abuse – this is to say you are not just the product of your circumstances but what you choose to do with your time here on Earth, to the best of your ability.
And it can definitely be challenging and overwhelming, which is why a support system is crucial: in the form of family, community, or even a coach.
So try this one simple hack: by shifting our perspective from “I have to endure this” to “I choose how I navigate this,” we regain a sense of control and actively shape our outcomes.
